Choose Love

When I make that statement, it may not be what you think it means. It is not:

Putting others first.
Pleasing others at the expense of yourself.
Staying silent to keep the peace.
Feeling resentful but choosing to be outwardly kind.
Allowing others to hurt you.

When I say choose Love, I mean to:

Speak truthfully and authentically, when calm.
Express feelings using “I” statements, not blame.
Take responsibility for your choices and where you are at in your life.
Do the hard work of forgiveness
See yourself in others and vice versa.
Put yourself first and ask the question, “Who am I and what do I want?”
Walk away.
Stay.
Love and accept yourself with sweetness.
Declare “I am enough.”

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